March 10, 2012
by Juliet
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Busy writing in their journals
The transition from public school to home school can be a challenge. When I first pulled Beetle out of public school (because she was so unhappy there) I made the classic newbie mistake of trying to have “school at home”. It’s still difficult not to fall into that habit again occasionally. When you grew up in the public school system, it’s very hard to change your mindset and realize that a more personalized approach (lead by the child, inspiration, and love) is possible when you are at home. The first “ah-ha!” moment I had with Beetle was when I realized that she would not learn anything until she was good and ready to learn it… and that was okay! She needed time to “de-school” and I needed to relax and let it happen. Here is the journal entry I made that day, back in January 2011, shortly after I removed her from first grade to teach her at home:
I’ve been struggling to make Beetle happily write in her daily journal. No matter what I say, she is NOT excited about it. She always used to say she didn’t know what to write so I made her a journal jar with questions in it that she could draw from and write about. That worked for a few days and then we were back to the moping and pouting at journal time. It was like pulling teeth and it took f o r e v e r ! So I sent a plea out on a forum of other homeschooling mommies asking for advice. Among other things they mentioned that learning at this age should be mostly play and my job is to help distill in her a love for learning, not make her dread it! This is where the personalized attention of a mother at home can make all the difference. They suggested I allow her to illustrate a picture (always her favorite thing to do) and ask her to tell me what she’d like to say while I write it down. She LOVED it. Once she knew I would write for her she asked to do her journal first thing today. What a difference! Eventually, as it gets easier for her, she’ll want to write it herself but as long as she prefers it, this is what we’ll do!
I am happy to report now that Beetle loves to write! She and her brother, Toni, write in their journals regularly. Their entries are always accompanied by creative illustrations. I never correct misspellings in their journals because I don’t want to discourage them. But I do make a note for myself of the words they are struggling with so we can go over those words in our lessons.